24 months and counting...

a couple of news of late that i'm excited to share. foremost, i got my promotion...yeah! excited to hit the corporate ladder but nervous at the same time knowing that roles and responsibilities has just taken a shift...higher! comes with the increase in pay check too. :P

secondly and most importantly, a two year old relationship...one that it slowly 'brewed' with lots of ujayi breathing and many asanas. holding the postures are easy, it's connecting both the breathing and the posture's that will challenge. the relationship is like an asana, the more you practice it, the better you are in not holding the posture, but understanding the fundamentals of how the pose reacts to the body...of course, strength is a by product of it. we recently celebrated our two year anniversary. i'm sure ah pui would agree to say..."you deserve it"...well, i bloody do. and only positivity please!

oh wait...there's one more bit...ah pui is now ready...i'm triply excited. let's see how 'ugly' he's turn out to be since he has been unofficially labeled the shrek...yes, ah pui, you're still dating the 'donkey'...eh yor eh yor!!!

life changing moments...

two days ago...mum just got news that her office back home will be closed...for good...and she will be transfered to kl. it's really a shocker for both herself and myself. my current place...whom i'm already sharing with my partner (bebe) will now accommodate my mum too.

it's gonna be challenging for bebe to face his in-law. :P. however, we are determined to go through this together.

i've had a chat with mum and she agrees for him to continue on staying with us...what a relieve. next plan is to reorganize the house to accommodate our new lifestyles...

mothers being mothers...having their maternal instinct. do you think she knows i'm seeing bebe more than just a friend...but a life partner? only god knows...

i'm sorry mum, i gave you the silent treatment when you told me about the closure of the office...i reflected and i deeply regreted what i've done...i will be more supportive and i will definitely stand by you...i love you mother.

i got picked up...tell tale signs of how you are picked up

i know i haven't been active recently...mainly because i'm happily married to someone now. also, busy occupying myself with a new found activity...gyming...even if there's such a word to describe this form of activity.

anyway, was at the gym a couple of days ago. after my rpm class, went to the steam bath, mind you, it was my first steam bath ever...boy it was great!! love it...after 10 minutes, out for a quick shower...then a guy quickly sneaked into the next cubicle. i have heard of stories on how men are picked up in gyms especially in shower cubicle...so, here goes...

sign one

guy sticks foot beneath divider

sign two

guy places palm on divider (provided divider is sand blasted glass)

sign three

if all else fails, peek below divider

yup, this guy did all the above...

i'm flattered...still got market leh!! woo hoo!!

of course, i went back to the gym the next day with the same routine...alas...no one picked me up this time. :P

i miss ah pui

ah pui...yup, that's what i call him...aka abochan...plump, specky, very uncle and very bitchy...smoker, drinker, not too sure if he's any good in bed although he claims he is...gotta consult "donkey" on that. hahaha. anyway, i miss him...

loves pill popper

i could never believe that i'd live to this day to pen this down but i've fallen for a drug addict...or should i say, he's layed off the substance for almost 2 months. but to me, a druggie will always remain a druggie. am i stereotyping?

dandruft problems, dry skin, yucky gums...all side effects from this supposedly "miracle pill". he's into chem fun, group sex...sigh, how low can i get?

but admist all that, i see a beautiful side of him...a side i know he's dying to get out and show the world and i really wanna be a part of it. i want to love him, i want him to know that...but i risk my life...of not knowing where i'd end up...

god, please help me...help me to love unconditionally like how you have been to all your children...:(

turning on...

a steamy class...it was definately a hot and steamy class...it was a beginner's class and i was conducting a beginner intermediate session.

he was hot...nice biceps, thight tees. man, i was...i was just...damn...fucking turned on.

what the fuck...;P

is platonic relationship love?

something's bothering my mind...is platonic relationships love? no sex in a relationship...how long can it last?

"sex is not important lar", "really, sex is not the determining factor"...how true are these statements?

can we really sustain a platonic relationship or would it be better for both partners to have an open relationship?

love...again, the root of all evil...;P

4 priorities

met a friend for dinner on saturday, something interesting which he brought up, the 4 priorities in actual order:-

1. family
2. yourself
3. best friends
4. lover

i guess lovers are always at the end for a reason because we change lovers so often, they are not always there for you when you need them...how apt. the only reason they are even in the top 5 priorities is because you sleep with them. hehehe...makes sense no?